First Day of School for Mind My Son!

It’s really great when you realize that you need to send your child to a school. Of course, you would always like to educate your kid. But the problem arises when you have to deal with different types of emotions, feelings, and even confusion. When I decided to send my child first time to school, I too got confused due to plenty of emotions. If you are also planning to send your kids first time in school, you should surely learn something from my experience.

He Was Happy on His First Day to School

When I told my son about his admission to a school, he was really excited about the same. However, it is true that he was really happy on his first day to school, but when it came to preparing for school, he was a bit anxious. Since it was his first day to school, he didn’t look great in spirit. There could be various reasons, but I think the main reason was we. Yes, we, his parents – my husband and me. We both love him too much that may often seem really bad. However, I didn’t go to school with my son, but my husband. He told me that when reached the school gate, our son was really excited to see the children. But when we entered into classroom, he became a bit confused. The worse part of the incident was that when my husband was about to leave the classroom, my son started weeping. Obviously, it was a tough situation for me. But thank God! I didn’t go with him. If I were with him, I would have surely started weeping at the time of leaving school.

I Kept Coping with Positive and Negative Thoughts throughout the Day

When my husband and son left for school, I started feeling bad about the day. I called my husband to whether they would have reached school safely. When my husband told me that he left the school and moving to his office, I insisted he stay with my child for a while even I knew it can’t be done. Now, comes to my worries. I was alone at home. So, I decided to keep myself busy with various household works, but I couldn’t make it a success. The reason behind it was that I was unable to forget that it was my son’s first day in school.

How Could I Control My Emotions

As I already mentioned above that I was worrying about whether my son could survive in the classroom or not, I decided to control my negative emotions. So, I started thinking positively about everything about our lives. Stated below are the few key things that can surely help moms who are going to send their kids to school the first time.

• Don’t be panic as it is a usual task for your child.
• It is better if you can prepare your child mentally for a new situation.
• Try to help your child understand the real importance of school education and how to make new friends in school.
• You may feel bad about the day, but still have to keep things positive. For instance, you should make your child feels great about his journey to a new educational institute.

It is better if you can tell teachers or staff about your child and his shy otherwise behavior.