Nothing can change a woman and her way of living a life. She knows how to be a great mother and a feminist as well.  She doesn’t need an opinion on how to be a good mother by keeping her dreams and aspirations aside by completely devoting herself to motherhood. She is capable enough to make her own choices and not giving a damn about advice she’s been receiving throughout.

Feminist in any woman stays in active mode even after having a child. She had an idea of having a child to enjoy her life not to restrict herself in bars.

Taking a break from work after having a baby is completely different aspect from taking a break from life and a most obvious fact that both the parents are equally responsible for taking care of a baby then why the only the mother will stop working on her dreams.

Motherhood is a very blessed phase of any woman and if she is following her dreams and working it doesn’t neglect the fact that she is taking her children for granted. She knows that if she’ll continue to work then only her children will respect both the parents equally and will know that both of them are responsible for giving them the life they are living today.

IT IS JUST THE PERSPECTIVE OF LIVING A LIFE OF A WOMAN AFTER BECOMING A MOTHER CHANGES NOT HER ASPIRATIONS.

Not only any ordinary woman but also many Bollywood and Hollywood celebrities are coming forward to promote the idea of feminism after being a mother.

All the mothers like Kareena Kapoor Khan, Neha Dhupia, Soha Ali Khan, Karishma Kapoor, Aishwarya Rai Bachchan, Madhuri Dixit, Rani Mukherjee, and this never-ending list are still making their points in the industry and they are the perfect examples to all the women out there who think that their lives have stopped and now nothing is left to achieve in life rather than just taking care of their babies. Not only Bollywood but also Hollywood celebrities like Kylie Jenner, a young mom is a millionaire, no better and perfect example can be stated to explain this.

There are women who want to do something, but she is pressurized by her in-laws and her husband to stay at home and take care of her children and then she is left with no option since she has to maintain her family but NO! She can still work, WORK FROM HOME. Today many successful women are at a high level by working from home. There are many choices of working from home that is of being a blogger or doing a business at home and so on. This would keep her busy and also her family satisfied which would lead to HAPPY FAMILY GOALS!

It is not necessarily important that every woman has to work, many of them are more than happy being a housewife and taking care of their children which is completely fine as at the end what matters is your own happiness. If there are examples of a happy working woman in Bollywood, then there are also many examples of happy housewives who left their work after marriage or after having a baby such as Genelia D’Souza, Neetu Kapoor, Sonali Bendre, and so on.

A happy woman is a blessing and she is happy working, living her life with her babies, making beautiful memories with them and not holding back in any situation.

13 Comments

  • Urvashi
    Posted December 13, 2019 10:36 pm 0Likes

    I agree to this thought dear. Marriage or children is no reason for a women to stop living her dreams. Infact I feel these should make women like you and me stronger than ever. Keeping our happiness at the top with no compromise is true feminism.🥰

  • Cindy Dsilva
    Posted December 14, 2019 10:46 pm 0Likes

    This is true. But they society in which we were brought up just showed us that life was a standstill after kids. Of course some situations are such that you cannot do much. But then when u do have the chance, instead of spoiling everyone, make everyone independent so you have your own life too.

  • Nisha
    Posted December 14, 2019 10:48 pm 0Likes

    It’s should be totally up-to a mother how she wants to go ahead. She should be comfortable. Let’s not judge a woman for making her choices, coz she makes the best one only.

    • ShwetaMishra
      Posted December 18, 2019 2:34 pm 0Likes

      true, let her decide to live the life according to her

  • Noor Anand Chawla
    Posted December 14, 2019 11:07 pm 0Likes

    Very well written and lucidly expressed article. I’m glad you shared your view with the world- these things need to be said.

    • ShwetaMishra
      Posted December 18, 2019 2:33 pm 0Likes

      thank you so much

  • Ricta
    Posted December 16, 2019 1:50 am 0Likes

    This is really a great read and it should be depend on the women choice what does she want . Happiness depends on inner peace .

  • Manisha Garg
    Posted December 19, 2019 11:46 am 0Likes

    Very well written. A mother should be allowed to chose her options whatever it may be.

  • Humaira
    Posted December 19, 2019 6:42 pm 0Likes

    Amazing and beautiful post. Marriage is not a reason for a women to stop dreams. Very well written. We should not compromise with our happiness. Great thoughts.

  • Geetanshi Arora
    Posted December 20, 2019 12:29 pm 0Likes

    Totally agreed to what you said. Even I never took up a job, I work from home. It doesn’t mean I am not aspirational or don’t want to work. It’s a choice of devoting time for home and people around the house. Blogging has helped me to create the balance. But sometimes people treat me as if i am idle. And, I have learnt to ignore such people and to keep myself motivated. More power to you. http://www.catchnowdaily.com/

  • Rahul Prabhakar
    Posted December 26, 2019 6:43 pm 0Likes

    Whatever a married woman decides to do in life, with her life, it should be totally her decision and prerogative whatsoever. No one has a right to decide what should be good for her.

    https://www.rahulprabhakar.com

  • Purnima
    Posted December 26, 2019 7:19 pm 0Likes

    Well said dear and I am super glad you expressed your thoughts here. Women have the right to follow their dreams just like men knowing what is best for their family. Keep up the good work and keep shining 🙂

  • Prakhar Kasera
    Posted January 5, 2020 2:00 am 0Likes

    work from home too is just a compromising situation for a housewife, a compromise which is just for her to make…not a solution

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